1. To be one with another you must have a mental connection.
2. Intimately speaking, never return to the ex that caused you to lose your spirit, by changing your character from good to bad, stirring up anger within your heart and soul, or subjecting you to type of abuse.
3. Forgiveis important, although it's hard to forget, forgiving someone does not mean you need to associate with them, if they caused stress, discomfort, or fear and forced you to the perils of negative energy, relieve yourself of their presence.
4. If you can't keep a secret, I can't trust you!
5. Get to Know someone completely before you give them all of your love.